The "N" Word

The word Nigger Just pisses me off.  I hate it.  I find it to be disgusting, not because I think it's a dirogortory term or you think it's racist.  Simply, I think that it is way FUCKED up that someone can say Nigger but I can't.  How do you expect to be taken seriously if every word out of your mouth is NIGGER or NIGGA or whatever the hell people are saying now days.  And who says it's a "bad" word?  That's like FUCK, who says "Fuck" is a bad word?  And for all of you guys out there saying if you're a NIGGER than you can say it, you just answered my question.  The reason I bring this up is because of one Denver Police Department Officers.  Yes, this dude is white.  There was  "zombie crawl" last fall, in Denver.  During which the crowd got out of hand and extra police were call in to assist in control.  One guy who is "African American" or Black or I don't know...  Told the cop this: 
The man, who appears to be African American, said to Paulsen, “Nigger, I’m trying to get through.” Paulsen responded, “I am not a nigger, walk around to your family.” The man then said, “I’m trying to get through homie.” Paulsen responds, “I’m not your homie either, just walk around.” The man then proceeds to follow the officer’s orders.
The man never filed an official complaint about the exchange. However, when DPD administrators were reviewing body camera tapes from that night they discovered the exchange and issued Paulsen a written reprimand Jan. 28 for being discourteous.  -CBS NEWS

Again, white cop says, I'm not a nigger...  later I'm not your homie either.  Can someone explain this to me?  Because what I'm saying is as lifetime of being a manager or a Drill Sgt in the US Army, If one of my Private's/workers walked up to me and said that, they would be ALL but be dead.

Let's recap, I do not advocate or condone violence with this blog.  All I'm saying is if you expect to be treated different than a bunch of white folk calling your the "N WORD" then maybe you should not use it and hold yourself in higher regard.  Instead, what is happening is one "white" cop is now being hammered because he replied with the exact same word that the other person used?????  He didn't come out and just call this dude a NIGGER, he just said, "I'm not a NIGGER" .  So I am asking where does it start and where does it end?  Am I ok if I drive down the street with NIGGER this and NIGGER that blasting out of my window as long as it comes from the radio?  Or, do I have to fight everyone because it comes out of my mouth and not the radio?  Just a question.....

BTW, the fuck in charge of the DPD is the same ASS we just got rid of in Louisville, KY he was a shit bag then and he appears to be a shit bag now.  But, I guess he's good as long as you follow PC.  He was the same piece of shit that told the officers to stand down when a bunch of thugs were desecrating the Fallen Officers Monument.  Check out the link!

 http://denver.cbslocal.com/2015/02/19/exclusive-video-shows-masked-men-defacing-dpd-memorial/